You're kind of attractive, how could you NOT have a relationship? ;]
lol, because no one around me is out, that’s how.
April 2012
42 posts
dude, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. you're EXTREMELY cute!! :3
oh dear lord.. hahah thank you. :]
Wow, do you have it posted fullsize?
No, no i do not. Lol.
Is your icon a picture of you?
Yes, yes it is.
So I happy I found this blog. Sad to hear you haven't been in love yet. When you do though it is the greatest feeling in the world.
So I’ve heard lol. Hopefully one day! Until then It’ll just be me and this little blog of mine lol.
Have you ever been in love? :)
no i don’t think i have. i think i’ve been close, but never actually been in love. i’m hoping that one day it’ll just all fall into place, and i’ll never have to ask myself, “am i in love?”, because i’ll just know.
Have to disagree with the submission you received. I don't think people are being ignorant when they say a gay lifestyle. It is a completely different way of living for most gay people. I don't think by calling it a lifestyle you're demeaning the fact that gays were born this way and it's not a choice. Just my opinion.
I think there’s a million different opinions about this. I guess it really depends on the kind of person you are and what how you choose to look at your life or of someone who is gay.
Your blog is freakinggg amazingg, I just came acrossed. I'm glad I did too. These pictures make me smile. Its great.(:
I’m so glad you like it :] Gay Love FTW!
What if I'm dating an amazing girl but i think I'm more into guys but i want it work so badly?
If you still like girls, then why not keep dating her? Just because you like guys too doesn’t mean you can’t still date her?
I mean it might be good to inform her of your sexual interests, just because it’s always best to not keep secrets in a relationship. And then she can decide if it’s something she is okay with. And if she isn’t, well then you know that she wasn’t worth it and you can find someone who is.
If you do decide to tell her, just make sure you tell her that just because you like guys too doesn’t mean you like her any less! She’ll probably have a lot of questions, and it’s just best to talk it out with her and inform her that your feelings are still there.
March 2012
36 posts
Your blog is beautiful.
thank you :]
BEING GAY IS NOT A LIFESTYLE
Submitted by: http://www.antoniovicenty.tumblr.com/
I LOVE YOUR BLOG PAGE. It’s one of the best here in Tumblr… In a recent post someone asked: What should I do if my ex-boyfriend broke up with me because hes scared of this lifestyle?
I’m not here to answer the question - I’m here to fix the word LIFESTYLE saying. And I tell you I’m getting tired of many gay men using this term LIFESTYLE. It’s very ignorant and it’s time to start educating everyone that being gay is not a lifestyle. First of all I want and need to say being gay is not a lifestyle. It’s not something we choose. And I keep hearing this over and over that being gay is a lifestyle especially coming out of the gay uneducated individuals mouths. Such saying as being gay is a lifestyle - it’s a wrong saying - it’s not something we choose. It’s not an alternative. We are born this way. No one calls straight being a lifestyle so why should we call being gay a lifestyle. I didn’t choose to be gay and hispanic. My partner didn’t choose to be italian and gay. We just are. No one chooses to be straight, no one chooses to be black, white, chinese, hispanic, it just is. We are all human beings.
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What does it mean when a gay male looks at another gay male eye to eye almost everyday and also smiles?
This is such a silly question ! It definitely sounds like he’s into you! If this is an everyday occurrence, and you can justify that he’s smiling at YOU, then you should go introduce yourself! He could be too shy to do it himself. Just go say hi, and see where it goes!
I just wanted to thank you for using your blog to express love, not just sex. I hate the stereotypes surrounding the LGBT community and sex. As a bisexual female, I especially hate the one that bi people are just horny or "easy".
You’re so welcome ! I know, it’s so hard to change one’s views of the LGBT community. I guess it’s just baby steps towards a stereotype-free community!
Cheers.
What should I do if my ex-boyfriend broke up with me because hes scared of this lifestyle? Yet he still wants me? We cant deny that there are still feelings he just dosent know what he wants. What do I do?
There isn’t much you can do besides wait. Give him time, and space. You can’t force him to open up to the lifestyle of being gay. You just need to let him gather his thoughts, and give him time to think about what he wants to do.
I guess the thing to do is give him an ultimatum. Tell him if he wants to be with you, he’ll need to “grow a pair” and learn to be accepting of who he is, and love him self for it. Tell him you don’t want to keep your relationship a secret.
If he’s too scared to show off you and who he is in public, then he doesn’t deserve you. You should be with someone who isn’t afraid to be gay. Someone who won’t doubt them self!
Just give him a few days before you lay down the laws. Allow him time to think. He’ll open up eventually. He’ll have to if he ever wants to be happy. Just don’t wait around for him for too long. Maybe there’s a reason he’s your ex?
Thank you for this blog. I'd been looking for a long while for a blog that showed LGBT love without becoming pornographic. I really appreciate your ability to show the tender, intimate moments that exist between people. Thanks.
You’re so very welcome. It’s so important to break the stereotype of the LGBT community being about only sex.
Is it bad if I'm only staying with a boy for sex? I know he's not 100% right for me but I'm using him to experiment basically? Is that bad?
Of course it’s bad. I’m not here to shun you or anything, but you should at least talk to this guy and let him know you don’t want anything more then something that is strictly casual. You don’t know how he perceives the relationship, and you could end up really hurting him if he thinks of it as something more then just sex. It’s best to let him know your intentions before it’s too late.
okay so this blog is beautiful. all i have wanted since i can remember is a boyfriend. living in alabama is the worst...
awh, thank you! i’m sure we’ll all find happiness eventually :] i’m sure you aren’t the only gay guy in alabama. just give it time <3
do you have any of your own photos up|?
no i don’t! i’ll post one when i actually get a boyfriend ;]
